Waiting for something does not mean you are in lack. It actually means you’re being prepared to contain the more.
I use to think waiting meant something was being withheld from me. That I was missing out on something. A friend told me a year ago we will always be in some state of wanting as there’s always something else that we will desire in seasons of life (marriage, babies, jobs, houses…) I use to hate that until I realized we wait because there is MORE for us. Because we are able to HOPE and DREAM for something we don’t currently see.
Waiting is not a curse, and it’s certainly not punishment. Yes the ache can and will come but set your eyes on the fact that your hope for the more is enabling MORE to be a reality. Your imagination creates the idea of more, and your lifestyle/choices creates space for you to hold the more.
Take a listen to this weeks episode on waiting. I would love to hear all your questions you have regarding waiting + singleness.